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The first factor of the Law of Allowance is not passing judgment on others. When do so, we are not allowing them to be who they are, but rather subjugating them to our own opinions. Once this has happened, not only have we placed ourselves above them, but we have also experienced negative emotions.

Emotions play a large part in our life, and they determine what kind of energy, whether positive or negative, we put out. If you view emotions as a tinting agent used on the canvas of life, it is easy to see how this energy affects our entire existence. When we are positive, our painting will be tinted in those positive colors. However, when we are negative, all the paints used in our canvas have that tint, and the final painting ends up with that negative tint.

On the other hand, if we are positive, and allow for the possibility of good to enter our lives, our theoretically painted life will be tinted with more and more positives. Likewise, when we want positives, therefore adding the positive tint, but do not really believe that we will ever have those things happen to us, we neutralize our own lives. This is known as a rut in the road of life, and we have created it ourselves.

While this may sound like we should hope and expect, going against God’s word, this is not so. We must not expect, but rather allow for positives. In this way, we can trust in a possibility, rather than expecting, and continue to hope for inevitability.

Under the Law of Allowance, we need to allow ourselves and others to be who we are. Rather than being tolerant, which is when we pass judgment but then allow for an exception, we need to practice full allowance, so that the exception does not need to be made. When we accomplish this, we are able to allow positives into our lives, and then they in turn and attract further positives.

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While the universe still demands justice, this law entails that we do not judge others around us. To many people, these two things, justice and judgment, are one in the same. However, in reality, while they are naturally related, they are two very distinct elements. Only after you accept the Law of Love to guide your life can you fully appreciate the distinction.

When we are not judgmental, we also do not hold expectations of those around us. We should hope, but not expect, just as we are required to do by the Law of Allowance. We want to allow others to make us happy and show us love, but we do not want to hold it as a requirement for our own love. Be alert to love, but do not give love with the sole purpose or expectation of receiving it back.

This law is to be unconditional. When you face life with a heart open with unconditional love, you are no longer a prisoner of fear. Without fear, the stress of everyday life seems to slowly melt away from your existence. When this stress begins to recede, you begin to put out a positive energy, and begin to attract positive energy to you, as well.

In addition to not judging people, we should not try to change people. The best way to keep from trying to change people is to learn not to have expectations of them, for it is when they do not live up to these expectations that we begin trying to cause change. Unconditional love dictates that we are without judgment, expectations, or desire to change.

Acceptance, gratitude, and allowance are all key parts to the Law of Love. The Creator of our universe lives by this rule, and commanded that we do the same. Of all the commandments, when faced by the rule-of-law, He specified that this rule, which is outside of legalities, is the most important. Our universe was designed to work the same, and the Law of Love is the lock for which was the mold for all the other keys to understanding the universe.

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Covent Garden is in London, about 5 minutes walk from Leicester Square, but could not be more different- with all the “movie premiere glitz and glamour” of Leicester Square, Covent garden is eclectic, designer, posh, quaint and spiritual all in one. Posh hotels share space with new agey healthy restaurants, tarot card type shops, and traditional pubs as well.

And, in a place called Neals Yard meeting rooms, I came across, for the first time “Abers”, all in one place.

The first time I was late. So I got to the meeting right at the end.

Two things I noticed when I walked in the room. One it smelled like a new age boudoire (incence, which I like by the way!)

Two, the energy of the place was incredible. A big sea of, well, love. So positive.

It’s all organised by a rather nice chap called Michael James of www.emergingjourneys.com

He has been rather busy as you can see if you visit the site, which I recommend you do, it is a hotbed of Law of Attraction information, and I recommend his book as well, available for a cheap download.

Anyway, I went along to 2 more meetings, and below if my synopsis of what I experienced there.

They tak a lot about the Vortex a lot, which is a very real Vibrational Reality, from where all things come.

And in the Vortex is everything we ever wanted.

All we have to do is get in there.

One thing I realised was - as someone who reckoned they could get a good idea about people pretty quickly, was I way off base there. I realised no matter how similar I THINK I am to someone, I cannot for one minute tell their desires, dreams, intentions. We are all different, and that is a good thing.

Anyway, Vibrational reality is a precursor to what is to come, and sickness is a distortion of the absolute well being that is available. If you have studies Abraham for any length of time by now, you will know the deal- Contrast causes desire to be born, the desire is held in “Vibrational Escrow”, and then we need to line up with it.

Ask, believe, recieve, I think this is the “pop” version of it.

But most of us don’t go, we look back at the reason we launched the desire in the first place- if we worry, complain, and find fault, then we walk in the opposite direction of the Vortex, and our negative emotion will be an indicator of that- every time.

MY Vortex is unique to me, as yours is to you. And only WE can get in our respective Vortices. I mean, you’re very welcome in mine, perhaps come for a cup of tea, but no need to stay.

So..being that all we want is in the Vortex, and all we need to do to get there is feel good on an ongoing basis, why don’t we go there?

1. We do not know better

2. We do not know how to break negative thought patterns.

But all of it has been arranged, tended and is waiting in the Vortex.

Making peace with where you are is a good way to approach the Vortex, because in peace there is no resistance, and in no resistance, the Vortex can be approached.

MOst of us do what I like to call (and don regularly) “Screw for Virginity”, meaning saying “Give me the manifestation and I will feel good”, but it cannot be that way.

But feel good, and the manifestation will come.

If we can work our way up the emotional scale to Hope, then we will begin to see evidence. Begin to see what is in the Vortex. Then why would we turn back ever?

If we could spend one hour a day in the Vortex, then, wow, what an improvement we would see!

This was the teaching we recieved after a few minutes meditation. Then it was time for discussion.

You could walk in the place a sceptic, and walk out a believer. The energy as I said was amazing, and the people there were genuinely HAPPY. Most of them anyway. Happy for no reason.

A most delightful man shared his account of a wonderful manifestation, a very unlikely one as well.

People saying “This stuff works”

A lady said, “I am moving into the Vortex”

I said “I will be your neighbour”

Law of attraction chat up line!!

One man shared details of all the wonderful ambitions he had, and all the wonderful things he had achieved. He was utterly happy with where he was now, and eager for more. And more came. And keeps coming. He enjoys it, desires it, but does not NEED it. Such a significant difference.

He does not need it to be happy, because he is happy already.

And happiness is our natural state of being. When we’re in the Vortex.

Occasionally we will be out the Vortex, that’s a Step One “Asking” experience. Its ok to be out the Vortex, but why would we want to be?

Another lady shared the story of her son commenting on how positive she has been recently. The whole room went “AWWWW”

Another lady, about the feelings of power and winning she had, experiences she had never had before. Another the emotional experience of ecstacy. For no reason! And yes, the good stuff keeps on coming.

Micheal- the group leader offered a very good analogy, and this applies to me as well.

WE have heard how good it is to go to the gym. We read about it, look at pictures of it, tell others about the benefits of it, even buy books for others exhorting them on the benefits of the gym! We understand totally intellectually, how good the gym is, how it all works, and its benefits.

But until we actually go, and do the exercises, we get no benefit.

Same with the Abe processes!

So shall I do the processes?

Or shall I screw for virginity a little while longer?

As an aside, when I left, I got into a black cab, as I couldn’t be bothered to walk to the station. I was that close to saying to the driver “Take me to the Vortex- and put your foot down”

I can imagine him “The Vortex mate, that’s that - some sort of nightclub”

Have a listen below.

Some more words from them:

Your attraction to this  is no coincidence, as nothing that you do is ever coincidence - how could it be, since your Inner Being is always steering you in the direction of what you want? And since you simply have to keep yourself in a place of good feeling so as not to pinch off the flow of wonderful things coming to you, you have attracted all  this information into your life - because your time has come to start thinking, you see..

Start thinking about why you are here. Start thinking about  what you are supposed to do here, what your purpose is. Start thinking about what you are experiencing in your life in the moment - how much of it do you like? How much of it would you rather not have? Start thinking about your responsibility in all this - how much of what you see is your own creation? How much is someone else’s creation? How much of what you see in your life do you have to live with and how much can you change?

What about the people in your life? If you are being badly treated, do you change them? And how do you change them? Did they start the whole thing or did you? And if you are constantly living the same bad relationship in your life, why is that? Are you paying off some old debt, or are you simply unlucky? And what is luck anyway? Does it exist?

And the world around you - how did all this come to be? Is there someone out there who I can ask for help? And if so, why has so few of my prayers been answered?

Are you confused?

So I bought the book “Opening to channel” by Sanaya Roman (one of my fave spiritual authors)

And it says in the book, apart from all the benefits that people have seemed to get from channeling, that it seems that, particularly in the early stages, that you are making it up.

Which, is exactly how it felt for me, it felt, like I was making it up!

So you will see my attempts at this skill, which apparantly anyone can do, on this blog. Or did I make it up? Or is it the same thing. And frankly, I do not know.

And I didn’t make that up.

Yes and yes. And yes, the drama does come from guilt and fear, and the need to “get somewhere”. Human beings have been human doings for eons and because they are trying to get there, they vibe out “trying to get there”, and end up… trying to get there.

Notice that the things that humans have been trying to do for ages, it has not been achieved.

People think that if they do not do do do, they will get nowhere.

But be be be, and you will be now-here.

Relax into it, and let your inevitable expansion come.

With love

Well, kind of, I don’t know if you do all those mind map things, well I have about 10 mind maps with about 20 nuances of everything on them. One idea, if fully developed would be a dream come true.

What I don’t want is to be faffing around with about 20 different ideas and not developing one to any great degree.

I seem to remember Segment Intending to be an answer to this somewhere.

Now we wonder who you heard that from. and you are getting better at it.

We said yesterday that all your dreams can come true, and you had access to the thoughts necessary for that if you would relax a little, and focus on what you want.

It is not your job to orchestrate it, that is the Universes job, it is our job to help you release resistance. So relax…..

We love your ideas, and want you to know that you can manifest every one of them, remember though if you are feeling concern about them, or anxiety or fear, you block it. The better you feel, the quicker it comes, and the better you feel in the meantime.

It might be a good idea to spend one day really focussing on one idea, if you come up against blocks creatively, identify what you see as the problem, and create an affirmation of its opposite. Perhaps record a CD with these affirmations on it.

Or buy one.

We understand you are worried that if you do not focus on a dream, then you will not manifest it, and that is correct, so why not pull out thise ideas you have, including the ones you wrote down this morning, and ponder them to the exclusion of all else.As you do, more and more ideas related to them will come to you.

Then, when you have lined up the energy, trust that Law of Attraction wil accomodate you and lead you to the circumstances and events you want.

Do it as long as it is fun and enjoyable, if you find yourself slipping into the doubting hows… then let go for a bit. You have forever you know. All is well here.

I still feel that I should be focussing on peoples problems and trying to alleviate them, be it poverty or..whatever.

You tried doing that for a bit didn’t you. Tell us, how did it work for you. Was it not the most stressful time of your life? Did you not find yourself overwhelmed and facing what you thought was an impossible task.

You have many, many skills and talents. Use them. Use them to serve other people, use them confidently and without apology. Use your entrepreneurial streak. Use it.

Stop worrying if you can or cant, just DO it. Make a start, get the feedback on what works, and refine it as you go along. Begin with the end in mind.

Imagine what kind of world you would live in if everybody used their skills and talents in this way? Pretty good we think.

It is not your job to fix the worlds problems. Solutions come as you desire, and allow, and desire and allow, and so does everyone else. 

You have no idea how far you’ve come said Abe in our last conversation.

So why don’t I feel joy yet?

Because you continually focus on what you don’t want. And drive yourself into oblivion and fear with it.

They gave me a loving and stern talking to. And so did my mum, who does not practise Law of Attraction, but does practise goos old fashioned mum style common sense.

And I love them both. And I think there is much value to be had in both camps, the non law of attraction people, and the law of atraction folks.

We agree, whatever causes you to focus in a more positive way can only be good for you, in the last few minutes when you focussed more positively, you felt better. You do not need us to tell you that that was your inner guidance saying “Yes”.

We know that there are still some things you wrestle with, but you will never find the answer you seek all the while you are upstream and creating tension in your bodymind. How do you know we did not inspire your mum (who we love as well).

The way of getting the best out of your life is, simply to love. Love yourself and let yourself show up in whatever mood you happen to be in at the time, don’t fight it, DONT FIGHT IT. Make peace with it.

So, now you are telling us you want to do a focus wheel on the subject of health, which you are concerned about (again)

You have asked you know, and it has been given you know, and if you are concerned, you are not letting it in, so, let’s see if we can move some of your resistance now, if you are willing to play full out. Deal? You fear you are not really channeling us, and that you are making this up, and we say “So what” if you were. We are not asking you to do anything radical or dangerous, we are not asking you to twist your head in a thousand different directions, quite the opposite, we are asking you to maintain your focus and keep everyone else out of it. then we hear you say “Selfish”, what about the downtrodden etc, but you really do not help them by focussing on their plight. They have asked, it has been given, and now they are being led to the next logical step fot them. You could not orchestrate that if you tried.

But surely, if I had your consciousness, then I would see that we are all one and behave that way?

Do you not realise that it is a process of BECOMING that wonderful united being, and you move in the direction of that, by focussing on what is wonderful and uniting, or on how far you have come, not by beating yourself up, for not always wanting to be that way. Look at the title of this post, you are doing it again.STOP.

Do you think it was a coincidence you were behind that van saying “Success, attraction” earlier. Now, shall we do that process before we go off at a huge tangent and we take another 10 years to get you to this point?

Agreed.

OK, I DO NOT want ill health or the fear of it.

So you DO want.

I want vibrant health and the confidence it will stay that way.

I am well.

Ok, a little specific, because your energy is not lined up yet there, but if you can make general statements along the lines of what you are wanting that you already believe, you will line up more. Go for it.

My body responds to my thoughts.

Not bad, but sometimes you doubt that, so try another one.

I have always bounced back from ill health, and maintained quite a good standard of health all my life.

Good, now, how does that thought feel to you?

Well, when I stop and think about it, that is true, always has been for me.

But I have smoked for far too long.

Don’t worry, you can quit, and it will be a lot easier than you think. But is that thought up or downstream.

Up.

So, you need to go downstream. Find a thought you already believe about the well being of your body. Come on, you can do it.

Some people smoke all their lives, and some people quit and are fine.

The majority of my body is healthy. My legs are healthy and strong, and so are my arms, and my fingers, and I have enough healthy food and insight about food to maintain that.

Not bad.

It will be fun to feel super vibrant again.

It will be fun to continue to lose the excess weight.

It will be fun to buy some new clothes.

It will be fun to release all the resistance I am holding about this subject.

How much fun to expect ever improving vibrant wellness.

You’re taking too much of a leap, gently bridge here please.

I do know some ideas that will help, and I am doing well on my exercise regime so far.

I do not have to get it perfect in any sense.

I don’t have to think about this obsessively all the time.

I am grateful I know this information and I can joyously expect vibrant health in time.

Deep down, I do love my body.

And I know it is designed for well being, and if I do not get in the way, well being must be.

I like taking control of my own experience.

I believe all is well.

I can relax in that knowledge.

All is well.

We want you to relax more, you think that when you translate for us you have to still find the answer yourself, it is a reaction that is causing stress in you. We want you to relax and put your focus on the things you enjoy, just because you enjoy it.

(Like when you saw your dad making a CD just for fun), we want you to do things just for fun, without all the intensity you attach to these things.

We want you to take your spiritual growth with more of a joyous heart, and stop beating yourself up about the past. We understand you were stressed and confused.

We want you to know that any question you have ANY question, you can recieve a full and joyous answer to.

We want you to know you are by no means alone on this path. We are here, and we know everyone on it, and can put you together.

We want you to know you CAN feel secure,that you are more than good enough, and that your dreams can be fulfilled. All of them.

We want you to know, that no matter what any of you do, you cannot stop us loving you.

We want you to play with the idea of getting what you want, and know it is ok to have what you want.

We want you to know, your service to the world will come easily and naturally, and will feel like the most logical thing in the world. It will not feel like “serving”. It will feel like pure joy, the joy we know you to be.

We want you to know that everything always has been well, is well now, and will continue to be.

We want you to know that you are on the doorstep of the most exciting amazing time of your life. We want you to relax and allow that to be so.

We want you to know that the thoughts that you think are out of reach for the alignment of your dreams, are always available, if you will relax a little more.

We want you to see the wonder of the people around you.

We want you to know, that your mistakes that you beat yourself up for were made in utter innocence, and that NO ONE is holding anything against you (only you)

We want you to know that you can channel, and do so well, as naturally as breathing.

We want you to know that you do uplift people with your radio show, more than you know.

That, my friend is spiritual sweetness, not spiritual S and M? What one would you choose?

Which one my friend?

There is great love here for you.